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🌋 moving thru resistance (the floor is lava theory) [OHT 084]

6/15/2024 • 11 min

You want to WANT to do it, but you don’t yet. Or you’d be doing it. On some level, you believe there’s more benefits to NOT doing it. Or you’d be doing it. Have you ever considered the drawbacks to not doing it? It’s like standing on a hot sidewalk barefoot. Standing still and talking about it… doesn’t help! The longer you stand there, the more damage you’re doing. Helpful Q to actually answer: What are you missing out on by thinking about it, and not doing it? By letting your fear dictate your actions and not stretching yourself to be brave? Ex. Thinking about it and beating yourself up over not doing it is likely more painful than doing the thing. TEST IT and prove me wrong, will you? (Better yet, prove Mom Brain / your wisest self RIGHT – show yourself that taking this action is indeed worth the discomfort and effort, and once you’re going, actually feels pretty dang good.) Give yourself a chance to try something new and TRUST yourself to take care of yourself on the other side. Twinkle toes over to the grass or some shade, at least. This is where it is actually helpful to bake in actions we can take daily - because the automation is useful. We can relax into routines vs. switching things up every day. ***Inspired by this journal entry from 2023: So – what are you waiting for? What are you afraid of? Have you considered the pain of resisting the thing is often more intense than DOING the thing? When has that been true? Journaling is cool and all, but have you tried actually doing the thing? Taking the step? Moving your feet? It’s like resistance is standing on a hot sidewalk barefoot. Thinking and talking about it isn’t going to help. Moving your feet will. Further [yes I said that; who talks to themselves like this?! 💀] – the longer you stand there, the more pain you’ll experience, both now AND later. Bc that burn is changing your chemistry. It’s gonna require extra attention for healing vs just moving right along, knowing and acknowledging the floor is lava and keeping it moving to the next shady spot. RELATED EPISODES **all eps surrounding this one (the whole series on creating habits) rebuilding trust and momentum after burnout burnout from too little action stuck in indecision hesitation + the myth of the comfort zone get out of your head 📮 Thoughts? Qs? Requests? Share with me here in the comment box >> onherterms.com/convo ❤️ Loving this episode? Tap the menu to share with a friend or three! 📱 Are we connected on IG? Join me there @nikkielledgebrown and tag me in a screenshot as you listen. 👑 Want my pro support in bringing your ideas to life while valuing your fam and your well-being? Click here to tell me more. 🎧 This private pod magic is made possible by Hello Audio. (I'm obsessed. And an affiliate. >> nikkielledgebrown.com/helloaudio. 10/10 recommend.)

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