Friendship IRL: Real Talk About Friendship, Community, and What It Actually Takes
Alex Alexander
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The Benefits of Normalizing Not Drinking at Friend Gatherings
I’ve never been a big drinker. In my early twenties, I remember having to stand up for myself to be included during drinking games, even though I was drinking water. But at a recent gathering we hosted, I realized there were actually MORE non-drinkers than drinkers present. Making non-alcoholic options (and non-alcoholic activities) a normal part of our get-togethers has certainly been an evolution, and I’m grateful for it. There are lots of reasons people don’t drink. Maybe it’s due to health reasons or childhood trauma regarding alcohol; maybe they’re in recovery, they have responsibilities, or they just don’t feel like it. Today’s episode is about starting conversations about friends’ boundaries regarding alcohol so hangouts can fit those preferences. If you want to drink less or if alcohol is a trigger for you, I hope you take this episode as encouragement to talk with friends about it. Personally, I’ve found gatherings that don’t revolve around alcohol to be not only more inclusive, but also more creative and fun. In this episode you’ll hear about: Why I’ve never been a big drinker, and how my health has led me to stop consuming alcohol entirelyConversations about understanding friends’ boundaries with alcohol and the importance in not making it a big dealDifferent non-alcoholic activities: workout classes! Walks! Going for drives! Running errands! Etc.Building shared experience roots through new activities, which also makes friendships more resilient and comfortable Resources & Links Listen to Episode 12 about emotional intimacy roots. Like what you hear? Visit my website, leave me a voicemail, and follow me on Instagram and TikTok! Want to take this conversation a step further? Send this episode to a friend. Tell them you found it interesting and use what we just talked about as a conversation starter the next time you and your friend hang out!
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