The Resilient Recruiter
Recruitment Coach Mark Whitby
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How to Leverage the 5 Pillars of Emotional Intelligence for Effective Recruiting, with James Elliot
Recruiting is not only sales and data-driven. It encompasses a broader range of skills, qualities, and considerations which is mainly focused on building relationships and human connection. Effective recruiting involves understanding people's motivations, aspirations, and personalities. That is why it is important for recruiters and business owners to understand the value of Emotional Intelligence. Emotional intelligence empowers recruiters to navigate the intricacies of human interaction, fostering trust, rapport, and success within the recruitment industry. In this episode, my special guest, James Elliot, shares the 5 pillars of emotional intelligence which are critical components in becoming effective recruiters. James is very different from my usual guests in that he does not come from a recruiting background. James joined the British Army in 2006, deploying around the world including to Afghanistan. After his own issues with mental health, James became a strength and conditioning coach at a national league rugby team, where he learned the power of mentoring. He was then asked to help establish the first-ever British Army Parachute Jumping Instructors Platoon. At RAF Brize Norton, James also attended several courses in mental health, becoming an instructor, and also broke 2 Guinness world records in feats of endurance in rugby. In 2018, James became a Mental Resilience Coach for the British Army, where he helped develop and deliver mental resilience training, including to special forces. In 2020, James left the army to take his mental resilience training to a wider audience including high-performing individuals and teams, such as the Paralympic Rowing team. Episode Outline and Highlights [1:39] Why understanding human behavior is practical in the recruiting industry. [04:36] James’ journey as a mental resilience coach and what made him pursue mental health qualifications. [15:04] James shares the resilience principles that he was teaching in the British Army. [17:40] Our discussion on the key concepts of resilience. [31:14] Practical applications of resilience in the field of recruiting. [39:09] Why emotional influence and biases play a huge role in your decision-making. [42:29] What should you do when a candidate ghosts you? [46:49] Zooming in to Emotional Intelligence - what is it and how do you develop it? [54:10] The 5 Pillars of Emotional Intelligence. [55:51] James shares his motto "Leave every room better than you found it" - use your positive influence. Understanding Resilience and Human Behaviour to Become an Effective Recruiter James explains his approach to mental resilience which focused on adapting to adversity. We discussed key topics o human behavior that can contribute to your success as a recruiter or recruitment business owner. The takeaways that well resonated with me are the following: Embracing Human Behaviour Insight: He zoomed in on the value of understanding human behavior, which he believes is a massive part of being an effective recruiter. When dealing with your team, a candidate, or a client, this life skill is critical to becoming effective. Leveraging Human Connection James also elaborated on the importance of engaging with someone on a very human level to bring out the very best of their performance. This is useful when coaching your team. James relayed very specific examples of how this has worked for him and his coachees and how this can work for you. Thriving Through Resilience The principle of resilience is about turning surviving into thriving. For you to become resilient, it is not always about being the strongest or the sharpest. It is about learning to adapt. For James, it is about changing quicker and adapting faster than everybody. Unveiling Emotional Intelligence James reveals his thought process about emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and understanding your emot
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