Curious not Furious

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37. Why threats don't work

Of course threats work. In the here and now - if we are willing to threaten to take something away that our child really cares about. But do threats as a way to foster cooperation give us what we want for our children and ourselves in the long run? In this episode I propose that we put guilt, shame and our own inner critic to one side - and simply get curious about the long (and short ) term effect of threats in our parenting. This episode might be just what you need to share w...

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  41. My child is driving me up the wall

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  40. 3 ways to manage the mental load this Christmas

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  39. 3 ways to boost your child's reslience

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  38. Modern parenting: Here's what we've misunderstood

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  36. From afternoon dread - to afternoon reset

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  35. My child should be doing this independently

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  34. How to stop raising people pleasers

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  33. Will my child be traumatised?

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  32. My child lies!

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  31. The dark moments in parenting no one talks about in the playground

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  30. Creating space for your relationship in modern family life

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  29. Does half term often feel unenjoyable and stressful?

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  28. When changing your mind is the right thing to do

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  27. Your most powerful morning ritual

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  26. 3 tips to promote independence