Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children
Laine Lawson Craft
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Overcoming codependency in Christian parenting
Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we're thrilled to continue our incredible series with Nancy Landrum, a remarkable guest who has been sharing her journey and the profound lessons she's learned along the way. Nancy has already opened up about her past experiences, including tragic losses and the challenges of parenting her son, Steven, which led her to write her insightful book, "Pungent Boundaries." In this episode, we'll be diving deep into the concept of codependency, exploring the invisible barriers it creates in relationships, and Nancy will offer guidance on how to identify and deconstruct these barriers. Through personal stories and wisdom, Nancy and I will explore the characteristics of codependency, the emotions it stirs, and the steps towards healthier boundaries. This is an episode rich with hope and practical advice, ensuring a path to healing and empowerment. Whether you're dealing with similar struggles or seeking inspiration, you won't want to miss it. Join us as we unravel these crucial themes and prepare for the final episode with Nancy that you won't want to miss! HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Nancy CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | Threads/Twitter Nancy Landrum is a relationship expert who has delved deeply into the dynamics of codependency, a complex pattern where interlocking beliefs between two people often lead to unhealthy relationships. With a keen understanding of these entwined behaviors, Nancy has dedicated her work to unraveling the destructive patterns that occur when one person assumes excessive responsibility, driven by the belief that love is demonstrated through caregiving and problem-solving for another. Conversely, the other person adopts a mindset of irresponsibility, assured that someone else will always handle the repercussions. Through her insightful exploration of these dynamics, Nancy aims to enlighten individuals about the importance of fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. Timestamps 00:00 Nancy discusses loss, lessons, and overcoming codependency. 04:04 Struggled with son's addiction and consequences. 07:34 Sorting responsibilities between myself and Steven. 11:45 Expressed sympathy and allowed self-reliance. 14:00 Barriers block genuine relationships; responsibility clarifies boundaries. 16:57 Set boundaries with consequences for healthy relationships. 20:28 Nothing is too hard for our God. Key Topics Covered Introduction to the Podcast Welcome to the Warfare Parenting Podcast Host: Lane Lawson Craft Series with guest Nancy Landrum Introduction to Nancy Landrum Nancy's personal story of loss and lessons from her son, Steven Writing of the book "Pungent Boundaries" Main Topic: Codependency in Relationships Description of codependency and its characteristics Explanation of the "Velcro" illustration Codependency Barriers and Emotions Types of negative feelings: resentment, blame, guilt, pity, shame Impact of codependency on relationships Nancy’s personal experience with her son Steven Boundaries and Responsibilities Differentiation between responsibilities of self and others Nancy's decision to set a boundary with her son Effectiveness of establishing healthy boundaries Identifying Symptoms of Codependency Checklist from "Pungent Boundaries" to identify barriers Nancy's reflections on control and approval addiction Deconstructing Codependency Barriers Responsibility for one's own feelings Steps to hand back respo
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