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E238: Ask a Sex Therapist: Cycle Libido, Rough Sex & How to Sync Up Your O’s

12/11/2025 • 64 min

Every week on Instagram we host “Ask Us Anything” question boxes… and every week we’re hit with hundreds of incredible questions we can’t possibly get to in Stories. So today we’re pulling back the curtain and taking some of those unanswered Qs and going deep — giving you the nuance, context, tips, reassurance, and real-talk sex ed you wish you got in health … Play episode

E237: The Real Reason You’re Not Having More Sex
E236: Sex with Other People…Around: Our Holiday Do’s and Don’ts
E235: How Your Phone Is Secretly Sabotaging Your Connection (and what to d…
E234: Tie Breakers: Passwords, Period Sex, and Passenger Princesses (We’re…
E233: Our Most Viral Tips (That Actually Changed People’s Sex Lives)
E232: Trick or Treat: The Bedroom Edition
E231: When Life Gets Heavy (A Personal Update)
E230 How to Actually Enjoy Oral Sex (Without Overthinking It)
E229: Ask A Sex Therapist: Swallowing, Fetishes, + Exes
E228: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt 2.)
E227: Initiation: What You’re Getting Wrong And How To Get It Right
E226: Foreplay Frustrations: How to Get More (and Better) Foreplay
E225: The Truth About Sex and Aging: Menopause, Erectile Dysfunction, and …
E224: The Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys & Tools
E223: Sex After Baby: Postpartum Sex, Intimacy & Desire
E222: The AI Girlfriend: How to Protect Your Relationship from Artificial …
E221: How to Explore Your Kinks Without Shame (Cuckolding, Pegging, Breedi…
E220: A Partner’s Guide To The Female Orgasm
E219: The Truth About Female Orgasm: Your Q’s Answered!
E218 Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It pt…
E217: Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It
E216: The Truth About Being Passive In Bed: And How To Take Control
E215: Mismatched Sex Drive Types: The #1 Reason Couples Struggle With Desi…
E214: The Truth About Being Touch-Starved (Even In A Happy Relationship)
E213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Aging, Leg Hai…
E212: Why You Flinch When Your Partner Touches You (And How To Fix It) "Th…
E211: Ask A Sex Therapist: Penis Pumps, Pegging, + Postpartum Sex
E210: How To Know When Enough Is Enough
E209: Mental Load: The #1 Desire Killer
E208: Stuck In A Relationship Rut? Here’s Your 4-Week Fix
E207 The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong
E206: Butt Stuff 101: Everything You’re Too Afraid To Ask
E205: Couples Coaching Session: How To Ask For More Even If You Don’t Know…
E204: Confessions Of An Overactive Bladder
E203: Is This Cheating? Part 2
E202: Am I being defensive, or am I defending myself?
E201: Couples Coaching Session: They Love Each Other… So Why Does Their Se…
E200: 200 Episodes Later: Let’s Get Personal! (Ask Us Anything)
E199: Am I The A*****e? Masturbation, Snooping, and Jealousy
E198: Stop Doing THIS If You Want More Sex (Initiation Fixes You Need to K…
E197: Ask A Sex Therapist - Resentment, Sexual Frustration, And The Death …
E196: 90 Prompts to Transform Your Sex Life (We Answer Some Live!)
Giddyup, Cowgirl! Tips, Tricks, & Techniques For Maximum Pleasure
What Your Partner Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom Part 2
The Things We Can’t Say In The Comments
“Is This Normal?” Part 4 — Low Desire Husband, Never Had A Fight, & Baby T…
Breaking Free From Purity Culture And Religious Shame
Am I Being Reasonable Or Ridiculous?
Can We Have A Fresh Start? Or Is It Too Late?

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