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He Says He Chooses Me... So Why Is He Still Thinking About Other Women?!

4/14/2026 • 46 min

In this episode (328), we address a powerful and heartbreaking question from a betrayed partner: how can her partner claim to love and choose her while continuing to have sexual thoughts about other women? We acknowledge the profound trauma this creates, especially given the timing during pregnancy and postpartum—a period of heightened vulnerability. The repeate… Play episode

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In a Relationship Filled with Betrayal—How Can I Trust He will Not Betray …
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My Partner says He Only Has Eyes for Me—but He’s Hooked on Porn—Should I B…
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When Touch Feels Like Pressure: Breaking Free from Over-Sexualization
Big Gestures, Broken Trust—Living in the Cycle of Empty Commitments
As a Recovering Porn & Sex Addict—What Is Keeping Me In My Marriage?
"Everyone Thinks He’s Great . . . But They Don’t Know the Whole Story"
When Loving Him Means Losing Me—Do I Stay or Go?!
My Partner uses Porn to Punish Me for Not Losing Weight. How do I Recover …
Healing for Betrayed Partners with a Sexually Abusive Past (PART 2)
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I Keep Finding Myself Hurt In Relationships with Porn/Sex Addicts—How Do I…
Advice for Young Adults Balancing Mental Health, School, Life and Porn Add…
Can I Have a Healthy Relationship with my Addict Partner without him Shari…
My Betrayed Partner regularly Screams & Lashes Out . . . How can I Help H…
My Porn/Sex Addicted Partner tells me I just need to "Get over it" . . . S…
My Addict Partner Keeps going Through Cycles of Taking Me For Granted! Wha…
I'm Staying Away from Porn, But I Want to FEEL Repulsed by it. How?
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