Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

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There's a Yelp for BJs (w/ Drew Droege)

3/27/2026 • 47 min

Comedian Drew Droege (Search Party, Bob's Burgers) joins Nicole for a chat about why you should never blow out your own candle in a relationship, the creepy phenomenon of couples who look like twins, and how pop culture's been romanticized abusive relationships. Drew introduces Nicole to a new hookup app that is basically Yelp for blowjobs, and reads some of the… Play episode

Our Healthy Era (w/ Kym Whitley)
Having "The Body" (w/ Fantasia Royale Gaga)
Being a Dom (w/ Sapphira Cristál)
Worst Hookup EVER (w/ Jasmine Masters)
The Torture of Working with an Ex (w/ Nicholas Scheppard)
Celebrating Galentine's Day (w/ Sasheer Zamata)
I Want You to Watch (w/ Heidi N Closet)
Your Favorite Queen’s Favorite Seamstress (w/ Danny Godoy)
Rolling Blunts for a Money Launderer (w/ Brooke Candy)
Dating Your Competition on Drag Race (w/ Kori King)
Getting Robbed by Hookups (w/ Lushious Massacr)
Addressing the Lies & Backlash (w/ Ginger Minj)
How to Trick your Partner Into Better Taste (w/ Bobby Berk)
A Cathartic Year End Rant (w/ Mike Mitchell)
Defending Our Marriage (w/ Latrice Royale & Christopher Hamblin)
Oversharing (w/ Yvie Oddly & Ryan Mitchell)
The Dark Reality of 'Skinny Privilege' (w/ Nava Kavelin)
Fraud & Legal Battles (w/ Lexi Love)
Losing Everything (w/ Tig Notaro)
Kiki-ing (w/ Oscar Montoya)
Why Won't You Scare Me? (w/ Mano Agapion)
Never Dated (w/ Kim Chi)
Happy Endings (w/ Pit Crew Bruno)
Send Me Your Hole Pics (w/ Angeria Paris VanMichaels)
The Viral Hijabi Pole Dancer (w/ Neda Momeni)
Hooking Up with Go-Go Dancers (w/ Adore Delano)
Sex Talk Got Me Fired (w/ Rachel Bilson)
Hosting a Sex Party (w/ Big Dipper)
I'm Bi Now (w/ Jenson Titus)
Stealing Condoms at the Olympics (w/ Adam Rippon)
Slipping a Note to the Couple Fighting in the Next Room (w/ Dan Gregor & D…
Ghosting, Gaslighting, and Gay Bars (w/ Roz Hernandez)
Dating Life of a Burlesque Superstar (w/ Jessabelle Thunder)
Dating after a Major Scandal (w/ Monica Lewinsky)
A lil update from Nicole: Best Friends is back!
We Met on a Podcast (w/ Devon Walker)
Flirting, Open Relationships, and Almost Dying (w/ Josh Sharp)
Nobody Wants to Date a Drag Queen (w/ Meatball)
We Dated?! (w/ Lou Wilson)
A Cruise Ship Romance with a Himbo (w/ Jessica Lowe)
I Was a Time Out Magazine Bachelor (w/ Lauren Ashley Smith)
Love Triangle Gone Wrong (w/ Michael Urie)
Skipping Love (w/ Betsy Sodaro)
Secretly Dating your Improv Coach (w/ Edi Patterson)
Bizarre Relationships with Animals (w/ Rose McIver)
Bob Derails the Pod (w/ Bob the Drag Queen)
The Male Loneliness Epidemic (w/ Drew Afualo)
Dating Around the World (w/ Colton Dunn)
Too Shy to Talk to People (w/ Owen Burke)

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